When your toddler begins to show signs he’s ready to be potty trained, it can feel like a daunting task. Potty training takes a lot of patience and persistence, but there are ways to make the process go more smoothly. You may feel like it’s the ultimate battle between you and your little one, but rest assured that most toddlers want to please their parents as soon as they realize there is a reward for doing so. For many parents, potty training can be an excruciating experience on every level – emotionally and physically. However, you don’t need to stress about this new challenge. Here are some Do’s, Don’ts, and potty training tips for boys in preparation for the big day.
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Do’s of potty training your toddler boys
The best way to start is by creating a positive, welcoming environment. Be sure to remove any diapers from your house and have potty training supplies on hand. Create a special area for your toddler, filled with toys, books, toddler tables and games that show your child that potty training is fun and not something to be ashamed of. Once you have made the space, you can begin to introduce the idea of potty training and what it means. When you start potty training, make sure that you have plenty of time to dedicate to it, especially if you have more than one child to potty train. Potty training requires a lot of patience, so make sure that you are able to set aside time each day to work with your child on the skill.
Don’ts of potty training your toddler boys
Above all, do not force the issue. Potty training is a natural milestone in every toddler’s life, and they all go through it at different times. Be patient and don’t rush the process, or you risk having your child regress and become fearful of the toilet. When you do begin the process of potty training, keep it calm and low-key. Avoid putting pressure on your child to perform and reminding them of the expectations you have for them. Potty training shouldn’t be about your child failing. Instead, it should be about them succeeding, and feeling proud of their accomplishments. It’s important to create an environment that is open and accepting of mistakes.
Finding the right time to begin potty training
As we mentioned above, there isn’t a specific age you can begin potty training. However, there are some signs that indicate when your child may be ready to start the process.
- Your child’s language skills begin to develop and he begins to understand what words like “pee” and “poop” mean.
- Your child is able to sit still and focus for extended periods of time.
- Your child is able to walk on his own and has stopped using a pacifier.
- Your child shows an interest in using the toilet and wants to emulate his parents.
These are just a few examples of the signs your toddler may be ready. There isn’t a set time when every child becomes potty trained, and that’s okay. What’s most important is that you don’t rush the process and that you are patient and willing to wait until your child is ready.
Start with a sturdy chair and box
Many parents make the mistake of going straight to a toilet for potty training. While this is an option, it isn’t necessary. A high-chair with a large, sturdy surface is a great way to introduce your child to the concept of sitting on the toilet. Place a box or basket in the chair and fill it with toys, books, and other distractions. This will give your child something to focus on and distract them from the contents of the toilet.
Once your child gets the hang of things and is comfortable in the high chair with the box, you can transition him to the toilet seat. Make sure you have him positioned with his feet slightly elevated to avoid injury. You can also help to stabilize your child by placing your hand on their abdomen to help them maintain proper posture.
Practice makes perfect
Practice makes perfect, so the saying goes. The key to successful potty training is practice, practice, practice! The more your child sits on the toilet, the sooner they’ll get the hang of it. Be sure to set a time each day for your child to sit on the toilet and practice.
For younger children, consider placing a timer and letting them know it’s “potty time.” This will allow them to focus on the task at hand and give them an idea of how long they should be sitting there. Remember, toddlers are easily distracted, so be sure to keep things calm, cool, and collected. You don’t want to overwhelm your child, or they’ll become frustrated and lose interest.
Be Patient and Consistent, but Show Your Child You Care
This is a crucial step in potty training your toddler boys. You must be consistent in the way that you approach the process and what you expect from your child. Be patient and don’t expect your child to master potty training overnight. If you need to, take a break from potty training for a few days and then re-assess the situation.
If your child seems to be disinterested in the process, take a step back and try again later. Above all, be consistent in the way that you approach the process. Show your child that you care about their progress and that you are willing to work with them to get things right.
Conclusion
So there you have it, a couple simple tips on how to potty train your toddlers. If you remember to create a positive environment, don’t rush the process, and be patient and consistent, you’re likely to have success. Most toddlers want to please their parents as soon as they realize there is a reward for doing so. Follow these tips, and you may just find yourself with a potty trained toddler sooner than you think.